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The question is, “My college roommate just got diagnosed with schizophrenia. What does this mean and how can I support them?”

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Overheard On Campus: What Alcohol-Free Activities Can College Students Do on Halloween?

Contributed by Melissa Kelley, MS, CHES

Kudos to you for deciding to avoid a booze-infused Halloween this year. There are many ways to make a sober Halloween a fun one.

Scare Some Kids

Since Halloween is pretty popular for kids, consider contacting a local organization that works with youth to help plan a haunted house or Halloween party that’s safe, fun, and of course, alcohol-free. Most organizations look for volunteers that can dress up, help with activities, and make the event fun for kids.

Scare Some Friends

If you’re looking for something to do with your own friends, plan a costume contest or Halloween fashion show. You can also contact your Student Activities Office about doing a haunted event on campus. Consider turning your residence hall into a haunted hall!  It might be fun for students to ‘trick-or-treat’ in your dorm and go door-to-door, just like when you were kids. It’s easy and pretty inexpensive to decorate.  You can even make it a contest, where the best decorated floor wins a pizza party or ice cream social, etc. Throw in a strobe light or black light for effect and you have instant Halloween! You also can’t go wrong with a scary movie fright fest, either at the theater or in your dorm room. You never know, you might just start a new sober Halloween trend on campus!

Overheard On Campus: My partner cheated on me – should I get tested for an STI even though I don’t feel any symptoms?

Contributed by Melissa Kelley, MS, CHES,  Beau Dooley, MS, MPH, &  Erin Kaufmann, BS

Check out what Melissa Kelley, a health educator at the University of Rochester, Beau Dooley, Associate Director of Student Wellness and Outreach at James Madison University, and Erin Kaufmann, MPH student at the University of Alabama at Birmingham, have to say about getting tested in this not-so-fun situation. For information on similar topics, check out the Overheard On Campus category or log in to MyStudentBody.

Melissa says …

Many people aren’t symptomatic or don’t recognize the symptoms of a sexually transmitted infection (STI). It’s always better to be sure.

Most clinics and health services offer confidential, free, or reduced-cost testing, so that lessens the burden of testing.

Keep in mind that getting tested regularly can be part of your standard health care regimen. Even people in long-term, committed relationships can benefit from knowing for sure whether they have an STI. People tested regularly also benefit from early detection and treatment if necessary, and from the confidence of knowing that they’re keeping their partner(s) safe.

We are each only responsible for our own health and well-being, so getting tested, even when we think the risk is low, is worth it!

Beau says …

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) estimate that there are about 19 million new STI cases each year, making STI a major health concern, especially for sexually active young adults. So your anxiety about contracting an STI from your partner is a valid one.

If you’ve had sex, especially unprotected sex, with your partner after your partner has had sexual contact with another person, you should strongly consider getting tested for an STI – even if you do not feel any symptoms.  Here’s why:

  • Many STIs are asymptomatic, which means that you’re infected but don’t exhibit any symptoms. For example, the majority of people infected with chlamydia (the most frequently reported STI in the U.S.) have no symptoms at all.
  • If symptoms do appear, there may be a delay from the time of infection to their onset. For instance, chlamydia symptoms, if present, usually appear between 1 and 3 weeks after exposure. Symptoms in HIV-positive individuals may take months or even years to develop.
  • The symptoms of many STIs may be mild and mistaken for other conditions. For example, in women, the symptoms of gonorrhea are often mild and can be so nonspecific that they’re mistaken for a bladder or vaginal infection by a medical provider.

Periodic testing for both you and your partner(s) is a good thing. Using safer-sex practices and effectively communicating with your partner about STIs is a great thing. Talk to your healthcare provider about STI testing options and other ways to protect your health.

Erin says …

One of the best ways to prevent sexually transmitted infections is by staying in a monogamous relationship with an uninfected partner, but this means that both partners have to stay monogamous.

An STI is probably the last thing you want to think about after your partner has cheated. But unfortunately, because you don’t know the unwanted third party’s sexual history, you don’t know what unwanted STIs he or she may have passed to your partner and then on to you.

It’s important for both men and women to get tested for STIs even if they don’t experience any symptoms. Most people who have an STI don’t know that they have it.

Many common STIs, such as chlamydia, herpes, and HIV, can be spread between partners even when no symptoms are present. Because your partner has recently had sex with someone else, he or she may have contracted an STI, even without feeling or seeing any signs of one. Getting tested early, before you experience symptoms, is the best way to cure or treat an infection and to prevent its long-term effects.

Even if or when your cheating partner is long gone, you don’t want to be left with a burning, itching reminder of him or her.

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Overheard On Campus: Why does my boyfriend always fall asleep after sex?

Contributed by Melissa Kelley, MS, CHES

Falling asleep after sexThe easy answer is that having sex is hard work! How long or how often you both have sex will certainly effect whether he is falling asleep as well. Keep in mind that after a long day of work or classes, physical activity of any sort might wear someone out.

Additionally, when a person experiences an orgasm, a hormone called oxytocin is released. This hormone, sometimes called the “love hormone,” has a calming effect and may just be the cause of his sleepiness.

The bottom line: Whether he’s worn out from a long day or the sex itself tired him out, there is nothing wrong with catching a few Z’s after doing the deed! 

Good luck and be safe!

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Overheard On Campus: What types of food will help give me energy throughout the day?

Contributed by Brooke Vanevenhoven, R.N., M.S.N., A.P.N.P., & Dr. Chris Hayes, M.D.
Introduction by Tyler Achilles, B.A.

Have you seen those commercials for 5-Hour Energy? You know, the ones in which they talk about the “2:30 feeling” – when you’ve just about tapped out all of your energy in the morning and early afternoon and now you’re tired and sluggish? We all have that feeling from time to time. How can we avoid that “2:30” feeling without drinking loads of caffeinated soda or coffee or (even worse) guzzling down a 5-Hour Energy? Check out what Brooke Vanevenhoven, a nurse practitioner at the University of Wisconsin – Oshkosh, and Dr. Chris Hayes, physician at University of Louisiana at Lafayette have to say about keep up your energy throughout the day. For information on similar topics, check out the Overheard On Campus category or log in to MyStudentBody.Assortment of whole grains

Brooke Vanevenhoven, a nurse practitioner at University of Wisconsin – Oshkosh, says …

We get so many mixed messages about nutrition. No carbs, high protein, low fat, gluten free. It leaves our heads spinning sometimes. To break things down very simply, our bodies need a variety of carbohydrates, fats, and proteins in order to function properly. Our energy comes primarily from carbohydrates. The key is choosing the best carbohydrates to energize our bodies without consuming unnecessary calories.

When choosing carbohydrates to energize your body, it’s always best to choose options that not only fill you up, but also nourish your body. Whole grains are good options when choosing starchy foods. They take longer to digest and stick with you longer, provide a good source of fiber, and reduce the risk of many chronic illnesses. Whole grain breads and cereals, including oatmeal, are great breakfast options, especially if you avoid added sugar. Read the labels to be sure you are getting 100% whole grains.

Another great source of carbohydrates for energy is fruits and vegetables. By selecting a wide variety, including many different colors of fruits and veggies, you will get various vitamins and minerals as well as flavors. Try to include at least five varied servings daily. One small piece of fruit or a cup of greens or chopped veggies is considered one serving.

As Americans, we have access to a lot of snack foods, breads, pastas and other carbohydrates that provide us with absolutely no nutrition and empty calories. Sure, you can eat a couple of chocolate chip cookies and feel energetic, but when you eat these kinds of carbs your blood sugar peaks quickly. This provides a short burst of energy, but will drop just as quickly, leaving you feeling sluggish and craving something more. In the meantime, you will not have nourished your body with anything it needs to function properly.

Bottom line, get your energy from healthy sources of carbohydrates: whole grain breads, pastas, and rice; and fruits and vegetables. Include a wide variety for nutrition and avoid the carbs that have no nutritional value. Combine that with a balanced diet including lean proteins and you will have the energy you need without all the extra baggage.

Dr. Chris Hayes, a physician at University of Louisiana at Lafayette, says …

I’m sure you’ve heard the old saying “you are what you eat”, and that’s certainly the case when it comes to keeping your muscles strong and your energy level up. Everything you eat is eventually broken down into three basic molecules: sugars, amino acids, and fats. A proper balance of the three keeps your body running smoothly.

To keep your blood sugar levels steady, your energy up, and your muscles in good shape you should eat several small low sugar meals every day that contain complex carbohydrates (like whole grains), vegetables, fruits and lean protein (like chicken, fish, or lean beef). Vegetarians can do the same by combining legumes (beans) and grains (rice, wheat) together in the same meal for protein. Don’t miss meals even if you’re trying to lose weight. Your blood sugar will drop and your metabolism will slow down, reducing your energy level. Keep whole grain/high protein snacks on hand for days when you don’t have time for a sit down meal, and drink plenty of water. Dehydration can make you feel just as run down as low blood sugar can.

Advance planning is the key. If all you have available is junk, you’re going to eat junk. If the good stuff is available, that’s what’s more likely to go in your mouth, and home-prepared meals are often cheaper than fast food. So plan what you’re going to eat for the day and pack it in a lunch box or mini-cooler. Your body will thank you for the effort.

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